You won’t find gems from the countryside.💎
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I hope you read my reviews on 15 livable and not so livable cities! I’ll continue my personal reviews on finding quality women/ men from these 15 cities as a single highly educated person. I’m writing from a heterosexual woman’s perspective, but try to include stuff for my male readers too. I hope my assessment helps my male readers find love. 😊🌸 I changed Lisbon to Tallinn on my list because the first time I went to Lisbon was with my Finnish boyfriend and the second time was a lame 2-day work trip, so I wasn’t paying attention to quality Portuguese men. Hah. I also changed Vienna to Amsterdam because I have always visited Vienna with my parents/ sister or been too young to look for a husband. 😃
I chose these cities as Part 2 for my previous blog post, because I’ve either live there or spent a lot of time there. Try to understand the sarcasm here, my blog is not super serious, okay? 😃
Quality Men:
- 👍🏼 Paris. Wealthy Parisian men are so different from other European countries. They are raised to be polite, international and tolerant. One handsome French guy lived on the 16th Arrs., had friends, money and looks, yet made the effort to get to know people from other social circles. He went to a low income black neighbourhood in the States, hanged out with locals and made friends outside of his posh Parisian upbringing. I never heard him make any racist/ sexist jokes and he always made the effort to switch to English if there were people who didn’t speak French.
- 👍🏼 London. A mixture of people from all over the world. You can find highly educated, international and well-mannered men if you look for them. Not in basic British pubs though. 😝
- 👍🏼 Berlin. Very international, young and fun. German guys are more outgoing than in other German cities.
- 👍🏼 Barcelona. Intelligent, professional and outgoing men. I got waaaay too little credit for my work in a Finnish company when I handled tricky situations abroad and found even a local lawyer to help us out in Barcelona.😅 I think women can easily find good men in this city.
- 👍🏼 Amsterdam. Big European cities attract quality people from all over the world. Amsterdam too even though there’s a Red Light district. Just avoid meeting men there and you’ll be good. 😂
- 👍🏼 Tallinn. I live in Finland, so Tallinn is super close by and many Estonians live in Finland. Estonian men are very polite and positive people. Very cool view of life and it’s an important quality in a man. Nothing worse than a nihilist. 😂
- 👍🏼 Sofia. I’ve never actually dated a Bulgarian man, but the culture is very macho and they protect their women. I’ve had a couple of good male friends from Bulgaria and they were very protective of me which was cute. We studied together in Finland but they left (like all my friends) for better job opportunities.
- 👍🏼 Milan. Italian guys are chill.
- 👎🏼 Malta. It’s a bit like Las Vegas. Juvenile rich dudes enjoying sunshine and parties. Online casino guys and poker players. The lifestyle is not for people who want to settle down and have kids.
- 👍🏼👎🏼 Dublin. An Irish man gave me his phone number in a tram and was super cute. I never met with him though. Don’t remember why. 😃 My business college teachers were a little racist towards students from India. A little shocking to me how softly they spoke to me vs. Indian guys. As a mixed race woman, it’s not cool behaviour AT ALL.
- 👎🏼 New Delhi. Well I’ve never been to nightclubs or tried local dating apps, but one traditional Indian matchmaking site didn’t accept my application. 😆 Maybe I sent a hangover pic, don’t remember. Oh well.
- 👎🏼 Bangkok. I was seeing someone in Finland when I went there for holidays, so I wasn’t really looking for men. However, I got the impression that foreign guys are there for fun, some creepy perv tourists in Khao Sang Road and local men are too shy to approach you.
- 👎🏼 Zurich. Conservative rich white people. If that’s you, then go for it!😄 The rest, don’t bother.
- 👎🏼 NYC. Stalking rich psycho brats, cold finance dudes, trophy wife dudes and arrogant men who have too many options. There are more women than men in the city, so the dating game is favourable for men. I met some local men via a dating site as a friend of mine suggested I should try it out. I guess she was actually just joking hah, but the dates I found from OkCupid didn’t lead to anything unfortunately. I might have been over doing it, even having two dates the same day. I screwed things up with an Indian young professor guy, next time I’m in the city, I need to chill. 🤣🤣
- 👎🏼 Luxembourg. Obnoxious rich brats. Not very friendly towards non-European looking people. My French friend whom I’ve known since 2011 changed 100 percent when he moved there and the end result was that our friendship ended. ☹️Something in the air? Racism perhaps?🤨🤣
Quality Women:
- 👍🏼 Milan. Fashionable, friendly and smart women. If you want to impress your mommy, bring a well-mannered stylish woman home.
- 👍🏼 NYC. Many ambitious young career single ladies with high standards and a great sense of fashion. A lot of international highly educated women. Quality women prefer NYC because it’s great for your career, people are friendly and you never feel lonely. Great choices for men, less for women. Hint, they all hang out in Starbucks. 😂
- 👍🏼 London. A good balance of normal vs. weirdos since it’s a big city. Generally I’ve found the British to be very talkative. Shy men have a good chance of finding women here.
- 👍🏼 Berlin. If you avoid the punks and drunks, you can find intelligent, open-minded and well-mannered ladies. Most quality women in the city have moved there from other parts of Germany.
- 👍🏼 Paris. Parisian women can be quite catty, but there are some real gems too. The French generally raise their kids quite well, so even if the women hate you, they’ll be polite about it. 😆So dear men, don’t be afraid to ask a Parisian lady out.
- 👍🏼 Amsterdam. Dutch women are very social and have no problem in approaching men. They get drunk and go for it. 😆They have a lot of success too so they are doing something right. I knew some Dutch ladies from my student years so I’m not making this up!😃
- 👍🏼 Barcelona. Spanish ladies are generally fun and outgoing.
- 👍🏼 Tallinn. Estonian women are elegant, feminine, friendly and loyal. Some cattiness among other women sometimes, but men don’t need to worry about that. ☺️
- 👍🏼 Sofia. Bulgarian women are kind, calm and feminine. They have authentic confidence and I’m sure many men like that.
- 👍🏼 Bangkok. Thai women are generally liked by Western men. Even one guy we fought over with my Estonian female friend (and we both ended up losing lol) married a Thai woman! Maybe it’s their excellent cooking skills. 😂🤷🏽♀️
- 👎🏼 Malta. It’s a bit like Las Vegas. Party animal tourist ladies enjoying sunshine and parties. Women are out for fun OR to recover from personal trauma (met some divorced women) in a relaxing island atmosphere. They are NOT looking for men to marry and have kids with.
- 👎🏼 Dublin. Everyone’s drunk. 😆
- 👎🏼 New Delhi. Many Indian women are very traditional and many don’t mix with foreign guys in India. If you want an Indian lady, search from Europe or the States.
- 👎🏼 Zurich. Conservative rich white people. If that’s you, then go for it!😄 The rest, don’t bother.
- 👎🏼 Luxembourg. Rich bitch syndrome. Maybe if you’re a man who can handle that, it’s perfect for you.
As a conclusion, AVOID the countryside from any country! 😄Most ambitious singles from the countryside move to big cities anyways and the rest become baby making machines. 😂 The world is huge, don’t get stuck. 🌍✈️🗺
