Overcoming Your Insecurities for a Better Dating Life

Nobody ever made themselves pretty by sabotaging others. 😃 Interestingly, the bullies with the ugliest souls seem to have a lot of success in dating. So do horrible personalities attract each other or just weak souls who settle for whatever they can get? From what I’ve seen, it’s the latter. Bullies are so disgusting thatContinue reading “Overcoming Your Insecurities for a Better Dating Life”

In Loving Memory of London

The inspiration to this blog’s amazingly stylish logo, my best friend, my only friend in Finland in dark times, and my furry grey baby cat London passed away two weeks ago. ❤️ I had a little break from writing as my cat’s death hasn’t been the only struggle I’m currently dealing with, but I’ll beContinue reading “In Loving Memory of London”

Sipping Vodka Won’t Help You Find a Quality Partner

Alcohol is not the key to happiness. No matter what some people claim. 😉 It attracts garbage people. Quality women and men want a stable spouse. I’m 35 years old now and I’ve realized after several dating horror stories that being drunk at a nightclub attracts exactly what you can expect from being drunk atContinue reading “Sipping Vodka Won’t Help You Find a Quality Partner”

Job Hunting Glamorously

If you’re unemployed, you know how stressful the situation is. If you are also single, you’ve also probably experienced the total disinterest in dating and meeting new people. When you focus on how to earn a buck for food, you’re not really interested in finding a man to have a bunch of screaming babies with.🤣Continue reading “Job Hunting Glamorously”

Happy Single Woman

After a quick Google search, I found out that there are other single women blogging about their lives too. Bella De Paulo is a Harvard-educated single woman from California and she talks about the positive aspects of being single on her website and has written books about the topic as well. She has also listedContinue reading “Happy Single Woman”

How to Control Your Urge to Slap Annoying People in the Face

I admit, I’m not a Zen master. I have a quick temper and my bad temperament has reached whole new levels after being continuously and consistently bullied by a big group of a-hole LOSERS. Something about bullies, racists and douchebags that makes me blood boil and head explode. 🤯Bullies seem to have a very narcissisticContinue reading “How to Control Your Urge to Slap Annoying People in the Face”

Where Are All My Friends?

When you are job hunting, your mood changes. You become irritable, stressed, your self-esteem decreases and sometimes you can even get depressed. It only gets worse the longer you are unemployed unfortunately. Especially if you don’t have a support network. Family, friends and a partner are the best support network you can have when youContinue reading “Where Are All My Friends?”

How to Defeat Boredom When You are Job Hunting

Job hunting is stressful. As is finding a partner. Doing both at the same time can be soul crushing. Even if you spend your days in looking for work, go on occasional dates and try to earn a buck to pay your bills by doing low skilled jobs (totally NOT worth your Master’s degree, becauseContinue reading “How to Defeat Boredom When You are Job Hunting”

How to NOT Go Insane Without a Partner and Money

Which is worse, no sex or no money? There are a lot of misconceptions of single people, especially single women. We’re “sluts” and men are “players”. The mutual connection seems to be that we are all “immature” since we can’t find a partner and manage our finances. WRONG. We just have higher standards than theContinue reading “How to NOT Go Insane Without a Partner and Money”